“I Can Be Your Man” by Betty Who + Summer Mix '23 Apple Music Edition, Saturday, July 1, 2023

Pride month may be over, but the celebrations continue, and today we're bringing back Betty Who, a staple of the Pride Festival circuit. Today's song "I Can Be Your Man" is a late '90s rocker performed just 25 years later. In "I Can Be Your Man," Who delves into the ambiguity of friendships many of us in the community felt as we were growing up. I heard it talked about on the Leaving Eden podcast recently about how often LGBTQ+ youth will experience intense friendships and never be able to articulate it as attraction. In today's song, Who articulates this sentiment after a friend breaks up with her boyfriend, and the speaker offers to "be her man" despite being a female-identifying person. It's a fun summer track like to others I've compiled in the Apple edition of Summer Mix '23.


 

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